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	Safe	~	A misnomer inplying that safety from pregnancy is safety from STDs meaning a male with vasectomy or female with hysterectomy or tubal ligation. (This means that he or she is unable to impregnate or to become pregnant respectively.) This term can also mean "uses a condom", but to ensure that there is no confusion, the term Always Safe without a doubt implies condom usage.
	Safe Word	~	Specific word or phrase agreed upon by a couple to let the other know when level of discomfort experienced in B&D has reached its threshold. This should not be a word like "stop" or "don't", but instead an unusual word or phrase like "armadillo toes". A Safe Word is important, make sure both parties in the couple can remember and understand the value of the word.
	SDC	~	One of the most extensive dating sites geared to swingers that we have come across yet. We are lifetime memebers and love the setup of this site. If you check it out, we are de3sum.
	Sex Play	~	The term play already implies sex, so the term sex play would become redundant except for the fact that it is usually in a ffm 3sum context consisting of one male and two bisexual females. This term indicates that the "play" will be focused on foreplay and sensual arousal with one of the women having intercourse with the man while the other watches to "end" each "round".
	Single	~	A person in the lifestyle who is either single or plays alone.
	Single Bi Woman	~	Yes, BiParadise.com is a site for the Bisexual Woman, so we might be a little skewed in our want to raise the Single Bi Chick up on pedestal, but we don't feel we are alone. So, all hail the Single Bi Chick in all her beauty and independence and her inbox filled with unwanted, unsolicited emails from single men who just want her to know that they think it is so cool that she licks pussy! We salute you for putting up with it.
	Single Male	~	For couples into mfm or mmf this person has a place in the swinging lifestyle. For everyone else this person can be a nusense at best. Sometimes he will bring a ticket to parties or clubs making him even more of a nusense.
	Social	~	It is an event, or Meet n Greet, that is organized in a get-acquainted area of neutral ground, such as a restaurant, or dance hall. These can be followed immediately by a party or be used to announce an upcoming party.
	Soft Swing	~	Where two couples choose to watch each other during sexual activities. There is no swapping.
	Soft Swing Girls Touching	~	This is the same as an mffm where the couples do not swap, but the girls interact during Soft Swing
	STD	~	Sexually Transmitted Disease. This is one of many viral and bacterial infections which are transmitted thru sexual activities. You will find definitions to a broad selection of them in this glossary. Not the happiest of definitions, but this is as much about knowledge as it is entertainment.
	Straight	~	In the lifestyle this refers to a person not interested in homosexual activity, but in the gay community this is usually used to describe someone who does not use drugs. This term, similar to Vanilla, is also used by swingers to refer to a non-swinger.
	Strap On	~	A variety of dildo which straps and/or inserts into the wearer so a woman can please her partner in ways which would require a penis.
	Submissive	~	One who desires to be dominated. This can be used in B&D terms or could just be used to explain a person's lack of aggression in the bedroom.
	Swapping	~	The exchanging of partners by a collection of couples for sexual activities. This can be open or closed.
	Swing (noun)	~	An apparatus much like the one you used as a child, but much more fun. Swings can hang from the ceiling or be self supporting on the floor. A swing supports one member of the couple off the ground giving the other member more creative angles for sexual pleasures.
	Swing (verb)	~	The act of being in the lifestyle or the set of preferences you have set in the lifestyle. Such as "How do you swing?"... this could be answered "Closed Swap" or "She doesn't play alone".
	Swing Club	~	A place where swinging couples and singles can meet and mingle and play. Clubs can be On-Premise or Off-Premise and usually cater to couples and single Bi women - allowing for only a certain percentage of single males.
	Swinger	~	A person or couple enter the lifestyle in search of recreational sex and/or creating friendships with like minded people.
	Swinging	~	This is where two or more couples agree to get together for the express purpose of engaging in intimate, sexual activities with a partner or partners other than their own.